Guys are weird and sometimes simply unpredictable. One moment you feel he likes you and another moment it’s a Fugazi. So how can a girl be assured about the guy whether he loves her even before he confronts? Is it even possible to judge through signs and actions? Well, yes! Even though the guy won’t want you to, still you can make an assumption through these 10 signs below.
Top Ten Signs To Know He Loves You
1. He Spends time with you
Generally a guy would waste countless hours with his friend circle, but when it comes to unwanted reasons of spending time, he has no time at all. If you realize that he is always making time for you out of his “whatever” schedule then that’s a sign! He likes spending time with you, but doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s love. To come to the conclusion, you need to rectify through other signs as well.
2. He Compromises
Strong headed, adamant and inflexible, these are some common qualities you will find in a guy. It is not very easy for him to give up any of these until he really likes you. So yes, if he is compromising in the friendship, then he definitely has something going on in his mind.
3. He Accepts you in Public
When a guy accepts you in public, then it’s a good news for you if you like him too. A guy is always choosy about his circle who he publicly accepts. Now that you belong in the list of important people, you can definitely consider this as a pretty strong sign of love and affection.
4. He Keeps Eye Contact
You won’t see your guy friends, keeping a constant eye contact with you, that’s because no guy would do that without any reason until he has fallen for you or maybe just playing with you. If he keeps a longer eye contact while looking at you, his heart probably beats for you.
5. He is Ready to Fight and Apologize
Only those people would apologize to you, who care for your feelings. Some are simply too egoistic to apologize at first place while some are too disinterested to even fight. If he fights with you and apologizes even if he didn’t make the mistake, then you know he is not just a friend.
6. He Has You in his future: If he really believes that you are an integral part of his life, then he will surely talk about you while discussing or sharing his thoughts on future plans. A guy who sees his future with you, is the guy who would do anything for you.
7. He Listens to you
Do your friends tell you that you talk a lot? If yes, then you are lucky if he listens to what you say and especially when you are talking about your friends, family, clothes and job. Lady, he is a keeper!
8. He Tries to Touch you
He would try to touch you accidentally and might even apologize. Guys do that to know the feeling of someone they love. They would also do that to see your reaction. It’s cute, provided you know the guy is not a cheat and pervert.
9. He Gets Jealous
A little jealousy is healthy, but it’s a spoiler alert if it’s too much. If he has feelings for you, then he will be jealous to see you sharing good moments with other guys. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t enjoy seeing you happy, but since he is at the stage where he hasn’t expressed his feelings for you, he would very much want you to share those moments with him.
And the biggest sign of all to know if he loves you…
10. He Wants you to meet the family
This is the biggest deal of all! If A guy is very preservative when it comes to family. If he has decided to introduce you to them, then you must have no doubts about his love. It’s a conclusion here and you don’t really need to bother about the relationship because he will soon confess his love for you, in case you don’t.
To conclude, making a guess is easy, but to really come to a conclusion with those guesses is difficult. If your guy fits in any three or more of these, then he definitely loves you.
PS: If by reading the above signs, you felt you have a friend who fits in the picture that you had no idea about, it’s probably time for you to rethink about that ‘friend’. You will rarely find those who really love you and when you do find them, don’t let them go.